SM 101: A Realistic Introduction de Jay Wiseman

SM 101: A Realistic Introduction de Jay Wiseman este un bun ghid educativ atat pentru cei care sunt abia la inceput cat si pentru pesoanele cu ceva mai multa experienta in BDSM.

Cartea este scrisa intr-un stil destul de accesibil dar este voluminoasa (aproape 400 de pagini) si are o structura destul de stufoasa si incalcita.

Pe de alta parte Jay explica destul de bine mai multe concepte legate de  BDSM cat si diverse tehnici si proceduri.

Este interesant de urmarit evolutia lui Jay in BDSM si mai ales dezvoltarea comunitatii BDSM din zona San Francisco. Mi-am dat seama ca noi suntem pe drumul cel bun, chiar daca ei au un avans de vreo 20 de ani. :)



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Un lucru de apreciat in cartea lui Jay este faptul ca pune un accent deosebit pe versatilitatea activitatilor SM cat si pe importanta pastrarii unei limite de risc cat mai scazute.

Este o carte pe care o recomand cu caldura tuturor celor care vor sa afle cat mai multe despre cum pot practica BDSM intr-un mod safe, sane si consensual.

Pagina de web a lui Jay Wiseman o gasiti AICI.

Un scurt extrat din cartea lui Jay Wiseman:

“I leaned back in my chair and let drowsiness sweep over me. My mind began to drift as I lazed in the chair, and a number of images floated through. One image that stopped and focused itself more and more clearly was of me sitting in a chair. My old lady was naked and down on her knees in front of me, and she was energetically sucking my cock. That was definitely an image I could ‘groove’ with, so I focused in on it some more. If memory serves, a grin spread across my face. And it was right about then that I looked at the image closely enough to see, to my utter shock, that her wrists were tied behind her back with a small, black cord.

My eyes popped open and my feet came down off the rail. I sat bolt upright and blurted out loud to the only person there, me, ‘Where the hell did that come from?’

I had no idea. I had absolutely no idea. I had never fantasized about anything like that before.

[…]

I began to feel seriously concerned. Remember, this was just a year or so after the Manson killings. I wondered and worried — boy, did I worry. Was I was [sic] turning into somebody like that? …

I went to the library of nearby Sonoma State College and looked through its psychology section to see what I could learn. What I found was grim. There were several books that talked about sexual sadism and its often-murderous results. One especially disturbing book contained numerous police photographs of rape/murder victims. The sight of these women’s bodies, often horribly mutilated, sickened me and terrified me more than I can say. Was I turning into a person who might someday do something like that?

I decided to keep myself under surveillance. I made up my mind that I was not going to allow myself to hurt anybody. If I thought I was turning into someone that would harm somebody else, then I would either put myself into a mental institution or commit suicide. And thus I lived, waiting and watching to see if I was turning into someone that I needed to shoot. Such a life was, shall we say, not fun. “

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